'Think about the future': Kids face up to the dangers of sexting

In a world where sexting digital flirting can create devastating personal andand legal problems, Grade 4 students in Nova Scotia are learninghow to stay safe online.

Like many teachers and schoolboards across Canada, educatorsat Bluenose AcademyinLunenburgare making online safety a priority.

Eva Purcell-MacIntyre, 14, an older student there,says it's a good idea. She's had many requests for nude images from boys in her community, and she's turned down every one.

If you are under peer pressure, take yourself away from that peer pressure.- EvaPurcell-MacIntyre,14

"You definitely have to think about the future, and you have to think about the situation. If you are under peer pressure, take yourself away from that peer pressure. Assess and make sure you know the full consequences of what can happen if you sext," she says.

Concern about the dangers young people can encounter while sextingis growing. Some of it focuses on the nearby community ofBridgewater, where six teenage boysarefacingchild pornography charges as well as charges of sharing intimate images without consent.

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They were arrested after pictures of more than 20 teenage girls were allegedly shared in a Dropbox account without the girls' knowledge.

Lawyers for the boys and the prosecutionappeared in courtWednesday and requested more time to review evidence and prepare. The case was put over until Oct. 19.

The sexting case sent shockwaves throughthe town andnearby communities that dot the South Shore of the province.

"It made me feel terrible for the girls and it's a terrible thing to happen," says Miranda Dagley, 14, of Lunenburg."It could happen to anyone in any situation."

Madison Greek, also 14, says she can see how it all starts. Many teenage girls feel the need to fit in.

"I think that this happens quite a lot in relationships, when two people are talking and flirting with each other and maybe one person is pressuring someone into sending those pictures or texts," she said.

Canadian studies say kids as young as ninehave sent explicit images of themselves. And half of older high school students say they've sent or received an intimate image.

Adolescent brains

"I think this is all about adolescent behaviour in the brain," saysSigny Arnason, associate executive director of the Canadian Centre for Child Protectionin Winnipeg.

The national charity,funded by the federal government and corporate donors,works closelywith child-exploitation unitsof police forces across the country to stop child victimization.

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"They live in the here and now. They're thinking about what they're doing in the moment and sharing that and no, I don't think enough of them are sitting back contemplating, 'If I share this, oh what if we break up? If I share this, I have lost complete control of what ends up happening with it,'"Arnasonadds.

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What sometimes happensis criminal. In the last five years, dozens of teens have been arrested for sharing images without consent. And their victims are often left devastated,Arnason says.

The suicides of Canadian teens Rehtaeh Parsons and Amanda Todd, who were assaulted and exploited online, are examples of how extreme the outcomes can be. A sense of desperation is not uncommon, Arnason says.

Removing images

"We've had about a dozen kids call in and say, 'If this doesn't stop, I'm contemplating ending my life.' So we know it's a very serious issue," she says

Arnason createdNeedHelpNow.ca, which guides teenagers on themost importantproblem ofgetting online service providers to remove images.

The site has averaged6,000 unique views a monthsince it was launched three years ago.

"When kids come in to us, what they want is, No. 1, they don't want their parents involved and they don't want the police involved. They want the content to come down. 'I'm underage, I'm in the photo, I didn't consent to its posting.'"

In most cases, service providers move quickly to remove offending images, Arnason says. Sometimes police are called in, especially if the sharing involves extortion or threats.

But she says the focus should be on more education and on the fact that all sexting crimes are about lack of consent.

"The problem was we armed these kids with incredibly powerful devicesit's almost a recipe for disaster. So we're trying to play catch-up in and around how do we begin to manage and teach kids, especially when they start to enter into intimate relationships.

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