Son of B.C. finance minister shares story of recovery from addiction

The son of B.C. Finance Minister CaroleJamesis speaking openly about his struggles with addiction, saying hehopes to help others.

It's how Evan James, who became analcoholic and addict 10 years ago,markedRecovery Day B.C.on Saturday, an annual event heldto celebrate the road to recovery from addiction.

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"Kindness, compassion and empathy towards people battling addiction goes a heck of a long way," James said in an interview in Victoria, with his son sitting by his side.

Recovery Day B.C. aims to increase awareness aboutaddictionand reduce the shame, disgrace and humiliation addicts often face.

Evan James hasn't had a drink for seven years but adecade ago he says was drinking all day, every day.

"It was bad, really bad," he said.

'It was a total obsession'

James says he beganexperimenting with alcohol and pot as a teenager. As an adult, his partying progressed to the point where he lost his job and he woundup on Vancouver's Downtown Eastside.

"It was a total obsession," he said of his addiction. "I describe it as tunnel vision and everything in my life was off to the side and my entire focus was on drinking."

His health deteriorated, mentally and physically. He saidhe even tried to deliberatelyoverdose multiple times.

"I was hopeless at that point and saw no way out."

But hisfamily and friends rallied around James and he reached out forhelp.

His wife, BronwynFarley, saidit wasn't easy.

"You get caught in the cycle of trying to survive each day with them and then feeling like you're enabling them," Farley said.

Be patient, forgive

These days, James saidhe no longer wakes up in the morning and thinks about his first drink.

"I can walk by a liquor store without batting an eye. This is all stuff I never would have thought possible," he said. He urgedother addictsto be patient and forgive themselves.

Numbers released in August showed that overdose deaths in B.C. were up 88 per cent in June compared to the same month in 2016.

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with files from CHEK News and April Lawrence.