Lonely, bored, and anxious: One senior's life inside a locked-down retirement home

In December 2019, just a few monthsbefore the pandemic, Victoria's Noel Schactermoved into a retirement home with his wife.

It had been a difficult decision borne out of necessity, after Schacter suffered a bout of cancer and his wife Alzheimer's had progressedto the point where it became too difficult for him to manage, even with respite care.

The facility they moved in to was comfortable. There were kind staff, hot meals, housekeeping and laundry services. Most importantly, the facilityallowedthe couple to bring their beloved dogwith them.

But the residence also has patients in care, and as the pandemic struck B.C., restrictions were imposed. The couple hasbeen unable to leave their residence for two months, unable to host visitors, unable to get respite care, and being unable to go outside they have had tosend their dog to stay with friends.

"Parts of my day, I'm pretty desperate. Parts of my day, I'm OK," Schacter saidvia phoneto host Gregor Craigie on CBC's On The Island.

His wife, who had suffered from various medical issues earlier in the year leading to greater cognitive decline, doesn't recognize Schacter anymore.

The disappearance of herone solace and attachment, their dog, has also been very challenging.

"People withAlzheimer's, their lives shrink considerably. They don't have the kind of friends that they used to have. Our social circle has shrunk. It's not because people are unkind, it's just because we're not able to interact in the same way."

The couple isn't alone.Schactersays many of his fellow residents aresuffering.

"They're lonely. They're bored. They're anxious and I think some of them are actually depressed," he said.

Schacter says that as B.C. begins to open up, it would make a big difference if seniors like him couldgo outside.

"We can physically distance. We don't have to go shopping. We don't have to go to food stores and restaurants and so on," he said.

"Those of us who are in these sorts of facilities really need to have our voices heard."

A 'balancing act'

It will be a "balancing act"to protect seniors from COVID-19 and give them space to move out, saysB.C. Seniors Advocate IsobelMackenzie.

"We know how it catastrophic [COVID-19]can be if it gets into a setting like a care home or a retirement residence," Mackenzie said.

"We've got to balance that, also as Noel has talked about, the need for some freedoms and some ability to interact with the world at large as we move into the new normal."

That might not be any time soon.

On Thursday, Health Minister Adrian Dix, whileexpressingempathy forseniors likeSchacter, said restrictions at long-termand acute care facilities must continue. As of Friday, there were 21 active COVID-19 outbreaks in long-term and acute care sites in British Columbia.

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