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'Rest in peace, Tobs:' Best friend mourns Humboldt goalie's death

On Monday, loved ones grappled with the news that Humboldt goalie Parker Tobin died in Friday's crash, after believing he had survived.

On Monday, officials announced Parker Tobin, officially believed to be alive, was among 15 who died in crash

Brandon Ewanchyshyn, left, and Parker Tobin were best friends who grew up playing hockey together. (Submitted by Brandon Ewanchyshyn )

All weekend, Brandon Ewanchyshyncollected messages of support to share with his best friend, who he thought was recovering in a hospital bed.

On Monday, he found out that Humboldt Broncos goalie ParkerTobinwas among the dead.

"I was trying to keep a record of all the support,"saidEwanchyshyn, the 18-year-old media director for the Spruce Grove Saints, where his friend "Tobs" played before his trade to the Broncos. "Finding out that he's never going tobe able to see any of that really hurts."

The news came Monday morning, whenSaskatchewan government officials announced that twoplayers had been misidentified.

Xavier Labelle, previously reported as dead, was actually alive. Tobin, who loved ones believed all weekend had survived the crash, was among the 15 who died. Fourteen others were injured when the team's bus and a transport truck collidedFriday on a Saskatchewan highway.

ParkerTobin'sfamily has asked for privacy at this time.

'Always positive'

Ewanchyshyndecided to start collecting messagesflooding in from theNHL, theAHLandWHLteams and the primeminister when he realized Tobinwouldn't be able to see them.

"Because I kind of realized he's in a hospital bed, his phone is smashed, he's not going to be able to see this. So one day when he comes out of it, it would be a pleasure to show him everything."

Tobin, 18, and Ewanchyshynwere about five years old when they first laced up skates for initiation hockey, working their way up the ranks to midget.

He said his friend "was always positive," no matter what the circumstance.

"If I would go on the ice and let in three goals, and I would just suck, he would be the guy that when you come back to the bench [would say]'Don't worry about it, it's all good, you'll get them next time,' " Ewanchyshun recalled.

In their teens, the friendsworked in the announcing booth for the Stony Plain Flyers, where Ewanchyshynplayed music and Tobin called the games.

"Itwas a great time,"Ewanchyshynsaid. "And of course, we would share laughs, we would talk about everything up there, regardless of what was happening on the ice. Some of my favourite moments with him were in that sound booth in Stony Plain."

Ewanchyshynsaid if his friend had survived the crash, his upbeat outlook would have allowed him to make the most of his life. He envisioned Tobin coaching kids or using his public speaking skills to one day talk about the accident.

It'sthat samepositivity that Ewanchyshynthinks will help him deal with the loss of his friend.

"I'm not in tears right now, because I firmly believe Parker would want us to be positive and want us to move on, and not sit there crying and be sad over what happened," he said. "He would hate that. Hewould be mad at us for doing that."