From families to community groups, seniors are sorely missed during COVID-19 pandemic

It's been weeks or months since many Manitoba seniors have gone intoself-isolation, and their absence is being felt inthe community.

John Oldham volunteers regularlyat Oak Table, a soup kitchen and resource centre in Winnipeg's Osborne Village. The 75-year-old former minister usually greets people at the door, and makes the rounds to chat with people during lunch.

Lately, he's been helping out behind the scenes, with tasks like wiping down chairs and tables.

"Right now I'm very hands-on," he said, "because some of the regular volunteers aren't here to do it."

Oak Table has lost 106 volunteers during the COVID-19 crisis. Most are seniors who are staying home for now,over health concerns.

That's prompting some, like Oldham and his wife, to take on more shifts. They've gone from volunteering only on Tuesdays,to working four days a week.

Marlene Oldham works in the kitchen, chopping fruit and veggies, and preparing bagged lunches. She said she wants to make sure their regulars keep getting help during the pandemic.

"You just have to walk outside and see the people who are camping outside here," she said, as tears welledup in her eyes.

"Who cares for them if we don't?"

Oak Tableexecutive director Glynis Quinn says the centre "wouldn't exist" without the help of retireeslike the Oldhams.

"Without our seniors, we wouldn't be able to operate," said Quinn. "We operate on a very lean staff and our seniors virtually carry the place."

Researchers at the University of Manitoba say the province's seniors spend millions of hours volunteering every year. Their research suggestsCanadians over 65 are also more likely to be "super volunteers" those who spend200 hours a year or more,doing unpaid work.

"It's kind of invisible to society, that older people are contributing," said Michelle Porter, director of U of M's Centre on Aging.

"That isn't the message, even outside of a pandemic. We see older people as needing the rest of us. And we don't see perhaps how they're contributing in so many different ways."

Porter says those contributionsgo beyond volunteering. Many seniors alsospend a lot of time helping younger relatives with thingslike babysitting.

"Thenumber of hours spent [doing unpaid work] might be underestimated, because older people don't see some things as volunteering. They just see it as something they should be doing tohelp the family."

Winnipegger Jennifer Chen says working from home has beentough without her parents' help.

"In Chinese culture, grandparents are [prepared] fortaking care of grandchildren," said the West End mom of two. "Teach them traditional language, cultural traditions. But they're not able to do that now. So it's hard."

Chen says her kids have already lost some of the Chinese words they learnedin their grandparents' care. They stay in touch over video chat, but Chen says that's not the same.

"They want to see their grandchildren, they miss them so much."

Thateagerness to shareknowledge with the next generation is a driving force for older volunteers, according to Rick Baker of the Canadian Association of Retired People. He points to a retired statistician nowhelpingthe organization with a survey on how the pandemic has affected seniors.

"Most of us have had a pretty good career," said Baker. "And if we can share that with both our elders and the people coming behind us, all the more important."

Linda Small spends several days a week volunteeringat Good Neighbours Active Living Centre in Winnipeg's Bronx Park. She's been using computer skills developed during her decades-long career to help create a user-friendly, onlinesystem to help seniors access services.

"Just because you're retired doesn't mean you stop doing things," said Small, adding she sometimes feels younger generations don't respect seniors' experience.

"It can be frustrating," said the 67-year-old. "You've got a lot of knowledge to share, but they don't want to take advantage of it. In my mind, it's their loss."

The Centre on Aging says, contrary to what many think,the vast majority of Canadian seniors live independently and stay active.

"Unfortunately, this pandemic has really fed into society's existing ageist stereotypes," said Porter, saying she's noticed a perception that most seniors live in long-term-care homes, when it's actually more like 20-30 per cent.

Porter said she's worried portraying older adults as vulnerable victims of the pandemic could have lasting effects on their mental health, especially if they internalize those negative impressions.

"Even older people canhave ageist views that can hold them back from things they're capable of doing, or from seeing their true value," she said.

She said that could influence older adults to stay away from volunteering and other meaningful activities after the crisis is over.

The Centre on Aging is holding its annual spring symposium on Monday, May 4. The conference will be held online, and will include dialogue betweenuniversity researchers and the community.

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Seniors sorely missed during COVID-19 pandemic

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Oak Table says a range of younger seniors all the way up to volunteers in their '90s keep the soup kitchen and outreach centre going.