Memory Cafs help those struggling with dementia

The Alzheimer's Society of New Brunswick is running Memory Cafs to encourage and inform people with dementia and their caregivers.

Joyce Moore has been going to the Memory Cafin Fredericton with her husband Bill since it started two years ago.

"It really builds a camaraderie amongst the people who are on the same journey," said Moore.

"I find you talk over some of your problems, share some the things that have worked for you and helped you. And also the patients, the people who actually have dementia, they build a camaraderie too."

The meeting starts with half an hour of social timeand then moves on to an informative session.

That's followed by entertainment, like singing or dancingand then there is more time for socializing.

Jana Jones, the co-ordinator for the Memory Caf,saidsocializing is the highlight for most people.

"They just really enjoy the socializing aspect of being in a group that feels safe to them with people in similar situations and they've really made some lasting friendships with each other so that's really great to see," said Jones.

The Alzheimer's society has eight different Memory Cafs in the province.

Jones saidgoing to these Memory Cafs and seeing everyone interact is a special part of her job.

"It's amazing to see. It just really makes us feel like what we do is worthwhile," said Jones

"Just being able to provide a nice atmosphere and a nice afternoon for a couple to come and enjoy their time together is really rewarding."

Moore said she finds that the Memory Cafis a safe environment for her to take her husbandand she doesn't have to worry about him offending anyone.

"The only embarrassment to me is that I never know how he's going to react or what he is going to say. Sometimes he can make some very appropriate comments," said Moore.

"Other times I just kind of hold my breath, but that's OKhere, it's very safe, because we know people understand."