My baby's first kick reminds me of all the Indigenous babies stripped from their families

WARNING: This story contains distressing details.

This First Personpiece is by Carol Rose GoldenEagle, a Cree and Deneartist who lives in Regina Beach, Sask.For more information about CBC's First Person stories, pleasesee the FAQ.

I remember the first time I felt my baby kick.

My sweet Jackson, whom I've always called my babybear, will be 27this year. I prayed for his safety and my pregnancy each dayas he grew inside of me. Iloved himeven before he was born and made his entrance into this world.

Some may say that the world is cruel, but I don't believe it. There is a saying that our vibe attracts our tribe. In my life, that tribe has been filled with light, love and acceptance. I am not sure how it happened, but I send gratitude to the Creator for this,especially since my own beginnings did not foresee this wealth of all that is good.

It's also why I beginon this day, Sept.30, byremembering all of those beautiful Indigenous children who never made it home from residential schoolor survived the SixtiesScoopor anything else related to child welfare and apprehension.

I also remember their mothers andthe first time they too felt that first kick.

I was one of those Sixty Scoop babies. My mother, Maggie Morin from Sandy Bay, Sask., was a registered nurse and acapable person. But she was anunmarried Creewoman from Peter Ballantyne Cree Nation, so the province deemed her unfit to be a mother and took me away from her onthe very day I was born. From the stories I am told, she never recovered from my abduction.

I expectshe, too, remembered my first kick.

I never met her becauseas a Sixties Scoop kid, I was cast into the child welfare system.

The province didn't open the adoption records for Sixties Scoop children until I was in my 30s. That'swhen I requested my fileandlearned Maggie had died in a car crash when I would have been in my teens.

But I still feel her presence. That first kick had magic. We are connected and always will be. I can't even begin to describe the sorrow of never knowing her.

I could easily be one of those people who vilifiesthe system of child apprehensions and Canada's dark history when it comes to Indigenous peoples. But I believe there's no point in doing that; you cannot change the past.

I felt my Jackson's first kick and I raised a beautiful baby boy, along with his twin brother and sister, Daniel and Nahanni,who both came along two years later.

Yes, there were policies that took me away from my roots, my family and my culture, my language and heritage. I give thanks that some of those policieshave changed and efforts are being made towardreconciliation.As a single Indigenous mother, my children could have been apprehended just like I was.

So much damage has been done. But going into my golden years, knowing that some day I will be a kohkum,there is an opportunity to undo the harms of the past.It is why I am grateful to be involved in organizing events that bring together communities.

As a child, I was never able to attend a round dance.

But this year, I am celebrating my Cree and Dene roots, and the people of thecommunity where I live willembracethe tradition of the round dance this year as we have in the past.

What is reconciliation? It isa starting point where we don't just talk about Canada's dark history. Reconciliation is taking action today, and not just reading about history, but doing something to change the relationship with Indigenous Peoples, for the better. It is not sitting on the sidelines and saying, "It doesn't affect me."

Reconciliation involves active inclusion. It is everyone working towardbuilding and strengthening community.

We will hold hands, we acknowledge and we say together as a community that we rebuild.

We don't watch, we participate. Holding hands and round dancing together.

That first kick.

It's happening.

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