Not a man, not a woman: Why this writer wants a non-binary Ontario birth certificate

Joshua M. Ferguson first came out as queerat15 in the small Ontario town of Napanee.

Then came thebullying, physical abuseand death threats.

"I was the only out queer person in the entire high school of 1,500 kids," recalls the 34-year-old writer, filmmaker and activistwho now calls Vancouver home.

Two decades after coming out, Ferguson identifies as neither a mannor a womanand wants to take a stand on behalf of other non-binary Canadians.

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Ferguson plans to head toa Service Ontario office Friday toapplyfor a change of sex designation from male to non-binary in hopes of getting a new birth certificate something that's part personal journey, part activism on behalf of a community Ferguson says has a "lack of recognition."

Non-binary people "are completely invisible in our society," Ferguson says in an exclusive interview with CBC Toronto. "And we've been around forever."

Ferguson uses the pronouns they, themand their to reflect gender identity asanon-binary trans person an identityrealized some five years ago.

"I was really quite unhappy, depressed, and I knew there was something in my life that I hadn't figured out yet," Ferguson says. "There was always a piece missing, apiece of how I understood myself."

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After submitting the application to Ontario's vital statistics registrylater this week, Ferguson mustwait for the government's decisionwhich could take up to six weeksbefore applying for a change of sex on other forms of government-issued ID.

That's, of course, if the province approves itand that's a big if.

TorontotransgenderactivistSusanGapkasays it's likely others have tried similar applications for a non-binary Ontario birth certificate privately, and have probablydenied.

"People are registered at birth. They're registered in a sex without consent," says Gapka. "You can only apply in the jurisdiction where you're born ... at the current time, you cannot amend your registration of birth to anything other than male or female categories."

But, Gapka saysthat's slowly changing.Starting last year, Ontario began issuing gender-neutral health cards and, later, gender-neutral driver'slicences.

It's a conversationhappening across the country.

Ferguson's application follows one by aSt. John'sactivistwho recently applied for a non-binary birth certificate in Newfoundland and Labrador.

The federal government also has said Canadianswill soon have a third option,otherthan"male" or "female," to tick off on their passports.

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The move is meant to be in the spirit ofBillC-16, which would update the Canadian Human Rights Act and the Criminal Code, making it illegal to discriminate based on gender identity or expression.

That's all good news to Ferguson.

"I think in the near future, we're finally going to be counted as human beings. And that is so powerful, and so necessary."