Shubenacadie residential school survivors await next steps after apology letter from Catholic nuns

WARNING: This story contains distressing details.

Some former students of the Shubenacadieresidential schoolsay there's still a lot of work to doby theSisters of Charity, aftertheHalifax-based organization of Catholic nunsposted aletteron its website this weekapologizing for its role in the school.

The Sisters of Charitystaffed the school from 1929 to 1967. Theletter saysthe organization is "ashamed of the cruelty some people caninflict on others. We apologize that the actions of our Sisters, our ancestors, contributed to a system wherechildren were separated from their families. We cannot stand by in the face of injustice."

Clark Paul, who attended in the school in the early 1950s,first learned of the apology when contacted by CBC News. After reading the letter, hesaid it does little to change his feelings about the actions of the nuns who worked at the school while he was a student.

"I think they're full of shit, to put it in plain language," he said.

Paul said the lives of some students werechangedcompletely by the time they left the school, and that some of his peerscarried their painful experienceswith them until they died.

"Something like that, you can't fix it. No matter how hard you try," he said.

Paul said he thinks an apologygiven to survivors in person, withadditional sharing and conversation,would have been more meaningful.Each student's experience at the schoolswas unique, he said, and their coping mechanisms aredifferent.

"I think there could've been help in it,"he said.

"To some, where the damage is so deep, it might lessen some of the hurt but they'll never be able to understand why this happened to them.It's a real slow, painful journey that one has to take to forgiveness."

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Paul said he hopes the Sisters of Charity continues its efforts on the matter.

The apology letter saidthe Sisters of Charity works "with our Indigenous brothers and sisters in various projects. These collaborative projects put actions with our words. We ask our Indigenous brothers and sisters to continue to teach us so that we can worktogether to create a better future."

When asked for details about the projects, a spokespersonfor Sisters of Charitysaid in an emailed statement that "there is no further comment."

'A good first step'

The apology letter is not without value, said Mi'kmaw Elder Dorene Bernard, who also attended the school. It marks progress in many communities' understanding of the painful history, she said.

Bernard and other Mi'kmawelders werepart of a conference call at the end of June with representatives from the group, unrelated to theletter.It was around the same time preliminary results from a ground penetrating radar investigation nearthe former St. Eugene's Mission School in southern British Columbia found 182 burial sites.

"We actually just started having conversations and dialogueabout residential schools, the role of Sisters of Charity and to me, it was a good first step," said Bernard.

Bernard has been involved in efforts to better support residential school survivors emotionally and spiritually, and is helping to organizea gathering with that intention later this year.

She said she's trying tonavigate the complexities of the situationbecause many Mi'kmaqare still faithful Catholics. She said, like Clark Paul, thatsurvivors can only speak to their own experiences.

Bernard saidthedialogue between the Mi'kmaqandthe Sisters of Charity was important, as it was "an emotional conversation," and that she's confident there is more to come.

"We're all still working on it. I want [survivors] to have whatever they need, spiritually. So I think we're heading in the right direction and [the Sisters of Charity] are interested to know what they can do to help reconcile," she said.

"I just think we have a lot of work to do yet."

Support is available for anyone affected by their experience at residential schools, and those who are triggered by these reports.

A national Indian Residential School Crisis Line has been set up to provide support for former students and those affected. People can access emotional and crisis referral services by calling the 24-hour national crisis line: 1-866-925-4419.