Breastfeeding mom asked to leave Ontario restaurant, she claims

An Ontario mother claims she and a friendwere asked to leave a restaurant for breastfeedinga baby, but amid the resulting storm of criticism online, the eatery insists the trouble was caused by her otherwiseunruly behaviour.

HollyTreddenicksaysshe went to The Irish Cottage Kitchen and Ale House in Wiarton, Ont., a small town about 200 kilometres northwest of Toronto on Friday.Treddenicktold CBC Newsshewas asked to leave when shestarted breastfeedingher baby.She then sat outside and waited for her friend Angola Murdochto arrive.

When Murdocharrived, Treddenick says they went back inside to clarify why Treddenick was asked to leave. They were told it was because shewas breastfeeding, Treddenick said.

"Angola and I was just kicked out ... for breastfeeding Ivy," wroteTreddenickon Facebook on Friday.

"Kicked out of a restaurant for breast feeding!!!" addedMurdoch.

The women claimthe restaurantstaff were rudeand raised their voices, as did two other customers who sided with the restaurant. Treddenick told CBC Newsshe and Murdoch also got angry but did not yell when the two men chimed in.

They have called on people to boycott the restaurant.

"I will never eat here and you shouldn't either," wrote Murdoch.

It is against the Ontario Human Rights Code to prevent a woman frombreastfeedingin public.

No one can "askyou to 'cover up,' disturb you, or ask you to move to another area that is more 'discreet,'"according to thewebsite of the Ontario Human Rights Commission.

'Misunderstanding,' restaurant says

The restaurant called the incidenta "misunderstanding" on itsFacebook page.

Referring to Treddenick only as "the young mother,"The Irish Cottage saidshe "refused to order food or any beverage and even declined a free bottle of water. She exposed her baby to the hot sun on our patio while nursing."

Shewas not asked to leave because she was breastfeeding, but "because shewas very argumentative with others who were seeking nothing more than aquiet meal."

The restaurant said it would work with local health authoritiesand The Young Mothers' Club to make sure it is following the rules regarding breastfeeding.

In a separate post,the restaurant's operator and manager, who said she handled the incident, spoke up.

Jacqueline Fretz apologized to anyone offended by "the verbal altercation" between the mother and other patio patrons.

She also apologized to the mother for "not supporting ... her 'long fought for' right to feed her child wherever she wishes."Fretz said she is a mother of three.

"I am sorry it escalated to a shouting match with other customers, which caused all to be asked to leave."

Fretzalso did not refer to Treddenick by name but said shewill not have to use the restaurant'sexisting "'mother-daughter' station."

Treddenickcould not confirm she interacted withFretz, as she did not recall her server's name.

Treddenick said she has not heard from restaurant management other than their public apology, but intends to respond to it.

The Irish Cottage has not responded to requests for comment.

In ansubsequent postSaturday night,Treddenickrefuted some of the restaurant's claims.

Negative reviews

The Irish Cottage'sFacebook page has beenflooded with dozens of one-star reviews, the lowest possible rank.Its overall rank was 1.4 out of five stars bylateSaturday night.It had climbed up to 1.8 by Sunday afternoon.

"Needless to say, the staff is likely regretting their actions today, and will hopefully do the mature and respectful thing and send a heartfelt apology," wrote commenterJessica Hotson.

"I will never visit this restaurant both because of how they treated a breastfeeding mother and their response to the outrage," addedJill Ricica. "Despicable."

However, at least one reviewer defended the restaurant and gave it a five star rating for the manager's "fantasticjob trying to accommodate the mother, but to no avail."

Facebook userRick Ricksterto claimed he was present when the"belligerent young motherdecided that she would just sit down on the patio with no intentions of even becoming a patron."

Other breastfeeding tales

It's far from the first time a woman has claimed to be asked to leave a public place or tobe more discreet while breastfeeding.

In mid-June, a Maple Ridge, B.C., woman claimed she was told to cover up at The Frogstone Grill. Owner Todd Pratt sparked more controversy whenhe said there were limits to women breastfeeding at his restaurant.

"What we don't want is women that feel they need to bare it all while feeding their baby. They will be asked to cover themselves up," he said in a Facebook post. "There is already one topless bar in town and council won't approve another."

He apologized for what he said was an inappropriate comment in a subsequent Facebook post.

In March, a woman claimed a United Airlines attendant threw a blanket at her husband with orders to "help her out" while she breastfedtheir baby.

That same month, a Winnipeg shopping centregeneral manager apologized to a mother who claimed a security officer ordered her to stop breastfeeding because it was "offensive."