82 Chibok girls are free of kidnappers but still not home

It took threeyears, threeweeks and oneday for 82 Chibokschoolgirls to regain their freedom after akidnapping at the hands of Boko Haramthat stunned the world.

But it should have been 83 girls.

According to GarbaShehu, the Nigerian president's spokesman, one girl refused to leave.

"One said, 'No, I have a husband, I'm happy where I am,'" Shehu told local television after the release on Saturday.

It's among the first real indications of the level of control Boko Haram has exerted on these girls and young women.

"It is not at all surprising," MausiSegun, a senior Nigerian researcher with Human Rights Watch, told CBC News.

"People in long-term captivity, as these girls, will develop some sympathy for their captors Stockholm Syndrome."

Segun says the trauma the mainly Christian girls have witnessed, "including constantly dealing with deaths, deliberate killings and other crimes,"along with their exposure to Boko Haram's Islamic ideology, "could leave them confused about issues of faith."

On April 14, 2014, Boko Haramkidnapped 276 girls, mostly aged between 16 and 18. Since then, 57 have escaped, threewere found over the course of the last year, 21 released last October and 82 releasedon Saturday. That leaves 113 missing.

For the latest group to be released, a transition back to normalcy will not be easy.

Many questions are being raised in Nigeria about the way in which the government is handling the released hostages.

Thosereleased in Octoberhave not been able to return to their homes and families.Instead, they have been kept in government-run facilities in the capital Abuja, where they have taken lessons and have received counselling.

The newly released 82 have also yet to be reunited with their families.The government says it is still verifying their identities.

Osai Ojigho, Amnesty International's Nigeria director, has called for the government to "respect their privacy and ensure they are reunited with their families and not be kept in lengthy detention and security screening."

With some released hostages being held for months on end, such processescan "only add to their suffering and plight."

The Chibok schoolgirls spawned a global Twitter hashtag #bringbackourgirls, which shedlight on the horrors of the Nigerian conflict, which began in 2009 and has killed at least 20,000.

Thousands of women and young girls like thesehave suffered a similar fate, forced to become Boko Haram wives, raped, trained to fight or become suicide bombers.

They are probably different people, due to their experiences.Elizabeth Pearson,specialist onBokoHaram

"They are probably different people, due to their experiences, than the young women preparing for their exams in 2014," says Elizabeth Pearson,a Boko Haram specialist who studies woman and conflict.

The world might never know the story of whyat least one schoolgirl converted to being an apparently "happy" Boko Haram wife.

The release of the 82 was carefully stage-managed. The actual handoverhappened in a forest near the Cameroon borderthe girls in exchange for an undisclosed number of Chadian prisoners, believed to be senior Boko Haram commanders.

Was money involved? What else was in the deal?

Yan St. Pierre, a counterterrorism specialist and head of Modern Security Consulting Group based in Berlin, says we might never know.

"Boko Haram will always try to get the best deal. And the reality is that most of what went down and was agreed upon will never be made public."

But he says the deal was done because "both sides felt they were maximizing the opportunity."

The first pictures of the girls came from the International Committee of the Red Cross (ICRC), which was not involved in negotiations but facilitated the release.

The girls,dressed in ICRC bibs, were walking towarda military plane. Thiswas probably their first flight anywhere, and it took them directly to meet Nigeria's President Muhammadu Buhari.

Images emerged of them having blood pressure checks and then it was all smiles, as they were greeted by the president.

An unrealistic transition maybe, but one the Nigerian authorities were ready to present to the world.

"The government's practice of parading the young women in front of the cameras doesn't appear to put their psychological needs first," says Pearson.

The government has promised that all will be done to provide the girls with an education and the counselling they need.

"Without a doubt," says Segun, "Nigerian authorities need support in scaling up and improving the quality services."

The group released last October has also been kept in Abuja, in a government-run centre where they are attending lessons and having counselling.

Some parents have been angered, particularly at Christmas when the girls were taken to Chibok to meet family, butonly allowed to do so in a local politician's house, before being returned to Abuja.

There remain, of course, continued security risks for the girls.

Buhari was elected president in 2015on a promise to end the Boko Haram insurgency.The release or discovery of 106girls is a major political triumph for his government.

But Buhari, 74, is in ill health and being treated in London.

Within seconds of the release of the photo of his meeting the girls, the governmentissued a statement sayingthe president was flying to London.

In January he went on 10 days' leavefor routine medical checks, but his stay turned into nearly two months.

Now it's not clear when he'll return, raising questions about whether he's well enough to lead.

But experts say talks for the release of the remaining Chibok girls will carry on regardless.

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